Your ability to embrace change pays off in courage and optimism. Any relationships not nudged toward the kind of growth you want will drift into change of another kind-maybe one you don’t want. Relationships are organisms themselves, and by nature must change. Things often come out better than ever on the far side of change. When you ride out your fear of change, you discover that different does not necessarily mean worse. Actively seek change in your relationship That’s why some of the most deeply passionate lovers are in their eighties: They discover that two high EQs add up to a romance that never stops growing, never loses excitement, and always strengthens them both, individually as well as collectively. In fact, for many people, falling in love serves as motivation for reeducating the heart. vigilant active awareness to apprise us of what’s working and what isn’t.įortunately, your EQ doesn’t need to have peaked before you embark on love.acceptance to experience emotions that could harm a relationship if left to fester, and.astute emotional awareness to avoid mistaking infatuation or lust for lasting love.But to achieve those relationship goals, we need all the skills of a high EQ: We have the potential to attain the kind of love we all dream of-deep intimacy and mutual kindness, real committed, soulful caring-simply because of empathy and our innate ability to share emotional experience. We don’t have to resign ourselves to boredom or bickering in our love lives. We don’t have to let conflicting needs and wants to come between two people who love each other. We don’t have to choose the wrong lovers, end up in multiple failed marriages, or let the romance seep out of our long-term relationships.
Building emotionally intelligent romantic relationships But to reach the height of romance we need all the skills of a high EQ: sharp emotional awareness to avoid mistaking infatuation or lust for lasting love acceptance to experience emotions that could harm a relationship if left to fester and a vigilant active awareness to appraise us of what’s working and what isn’t.
We have the potential to attain the kind of love we all dream of-deep intimacy, mutual kindness, real commitment, soulful caring-simply because of empathy, our innate ability to share emotional experience. You’ll automatically sense, through active awareness and empathy, the little shifts in the dynamics of your romance that signal a need for action. By building your EQ, you’ll have the sensitivity that each of us is always seeking in a significant other. How emotional intelligence (EQ) impacts relationshipsĮmotional intelligence (EQ) is the secret of lasting intimate relationships, largely because it makes us extremely aware of the changes-large and small-that are constantly occurring in ourselves and others. Emotional intelligence Emotional Intelligence in Love and Relationships Learn why emotional intelligence (EQ) matters in romantic relationships and how you can use it to strengthen your partnership, increase intimacy, stay connected, and build a love that lasts.
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